Wow,
I never really thought that I would be honored to write on my wife’s blog or
ever write a blog post, it's kind of her thing. But I figured it
was time to write down my story about where we’ve been and how it’s gone.
To
start off I am the Hubs, the husband Kylie talks about often in her blog. I went Crown College for 4 years and obtained
my B.S in Sport Management and played 4 years of college football. I met my gorgeous wife in college. Coming out of college in 2009 I thought
getting a job would be hard, but not as hard as it was for me. After graduating I worked my summer job where
I worked while going to college. I loved
that job, but it was only seasonal, lasting from April to September. While working that summer I started sending
out resume after resume to companies that were hiring only getting a few
interviews and not much else. Then in
November 2009 with not having found a job yet I applied at a Target store just
to get a job to have income and pay off loans and save up for the future. I never thought I would be working at Target
as a team member with a 4 year degree and previous work experience, but God had
other plans for me that I did not expect.
Through
my time at Target, God taught me many valuable lessons of perseverance and
patience. I had a very hard time
allowing God to take control of my situation and turning it over to him
entirely. I had many hard discussions
with my father, mother and future wife (at that time) about what I am supposed
to be doing and why God had burdened me with not being able to get a full time
job. I am a person that wants to figure
things out for myself, does not like getting a lot of help and tries to control
or figure it all out on my own. I kept
telling myself through this time that I needed to just control this situation
and figure it out for myself. I started
to tell myself that I was not good enough for jobs and started letting Satan
creep in my life telling me false lies about myself.
In
the midst of all this, in August 2010, I married the love of my life, Kylie. Through this time Kylie has been my best
friend. Through the thick and thin, she
has always been there for me. In the
spring of 2011, I finally started letting God take control of my situation and
things started to change, but not in a way that we could see at first. It began
when that spring, we had a blow to the knees when Kylie lost her job. As she didn’t work for 3 months we lived on a
limited income, which was a challenge, but so rewarding when looking back at
it, which would prepare us and shape us to be more life Christ. Living on a limited income makes you look at
things in a different light and truly shows you how God can bless you. We learned that while God can bless you, it
is essential to learn to accept those blessings. It is a hard lesson to learn,
a lot harder than it sounds. However, I learned how to take blessings from the
people who wanted to bless us with things whether it was helping around the
farm or taking us out for dinner.
Together, Kylie and I learned that financial gain and status are not
important in the view of eternity. Society tells us to get as much money as we
can. As our mindsets were changed, God began opening up my eyes to see where I
could be going with my career. For some reason, he waited until we had gone
through this, but it was perfect timing- something that only he can know. In
September of 2011, I applied for law enforcement school. I have always wanted
to do this but always made up excuses to not do it. A big excuse was the money,
but God had provided and blessed us this far, so why would he stop now? I
finally allowed God to lead me, and with family encouraging me, I applied and
started taking class in January 2012. I
will be completed with school in August 2013 which then I will be able to
achieve my career goal of becoming a Police Officer.
To
wrap this up, all I want to say GOD IS GOOD.
When things got bad, all I could hear was “God will never put something
in your life that you cannot handle or defeat.”
With that repeating in my mind, I knew that God was in control. I knew
he would take care of me. I knew he would provide for us when we needed it. I
knew he had everything planned out. This
has been an amazing journey and I know that it’s not over, which is the most
exciting part. I know that with my
amazing wife, family and my wife’s family were essential to this process and I
could have not done it without them. They prayed for me daily. There when I
need someone to talk to and there just to give me a pat on the back and say
keep up the hard work and keep on persevering.
I
hope that if you read this you come out with something that can apply to your
life. Just remember don’t count God out.
Let him lead you were he wants you to go and you may be surprised.
So proud of you Jay! Thanks for sharing with us. This is definitely a lesson even us old timers can carry with us. No matter how old, or how tough the situation, Never give up on God. He always has our best intentions in mind, even when we want to disagree. Hugs from SD.
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